Tip #4–How to Win a Girl’s Heart… And Keep It! Romance Tips that Worked for Me for 35 Years

How to Win a Girl's Heart Romance Tips

Here’s a romance tip that may seem a bit antiquated. But the tiny bit of extra effort required always warms my heart.

Romance Tip #4–Go Postal

Romance Tip #3 Mailbox

I’m seldom thrilled by what arrives in the mailbox.

Mostly bills.



The occasional wedding invitation.

But every once in a while, I get something in the mail from him!

Beach Scene --wish you were there!

Usually, it’s a sweet card. But one of my favorite items to receive from him is a postcard from one of our prior vacations. Yes, he buys them and sneaks them home and them sends them to me months or even years later with the sentiment, “Wish we were there!”

There’s something about getting a sweet message via snail-mail that makes me glow inside. I don’t know exactly why it’s so much better than simply sending an email, e-card, text message, or speaking the words. Not that there’s anything wrong with those other ways of expressing his love, but he definitely gets more points for sending something to me through the postal service.

'I can live only wholly with you or not at all'-- from a love letter written by Ludwig von Beethoven– Click To Tweet

I have a shoebox full of handwritten love letters that he wrote to me the summer after we met. Sweet? Yes. Sappy? Yes. Adorable? I think so. The kind of thing that wins my heart and keeps it forever?


By | 2017-05-25T10:02:54+00:00 April 7th, 2016|For Musing or Amusing, Romance Tips|